Ever walked into a meeting and felt like the least qualified person there?

You’re not alone.

That little voice in your head whispers, “What if they realize I’m not as good as they think?” Meanwhile, you’re actually brilliant at your job—but somehow, confidence doesn’t always show up when you need it most.

The good news? Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. And today, I’m giving you three ways to own the room—without feeling like a fraud.

1. Speak First, Think Later (Sort Of)

Waiting for the perfect moment to speak? By the time you find it, someone else has already said what you were thinking.

Instead, challenge yourself to speak up early—ask a question, add a quick thought, anything. The more you contribute, the less time you have to overthink. Plus, people will start seeing you as a natural part of the conversation (instead of just an observer).

👉 Pro tip: Prepare a go-to phrase for jumping in. Something like, “I’d love to add to that…” or “One thing that might help is…” makes it easier to get started.

2. Own Your Silence (Because It’s Powerful)

Ever felt like you need to fill the space when answering a question? Newsflash: You don’t.

Strong speakers pause for impact. When you take a second to breathe before responding, it doesn’t make you look unsure—it makes you look in control.

So next time someone asks you a tricky question, resist the urge to rush. Take a breath. Then answer with intention.

👉 Bonus tip: Try this in everyday conversations. You’ll notice how much more powerful your words feel when you slow down.

3. Rewrite the “I’m Not Good Enough” Script

Imposter syndrome loves to tell you that you’re not qualified. But let’s look at the facts:

• You’ve been hired because you bring value.

• You’ve solved problems, led projects, and helped your team succeed.

• No one knows everything—even the most confident leaders.

The next time self-doubt creeps in, flip the script. Instead of “I don’t belong here,” try “I have a unique perspective to share.” Instead of “My English isn’t perfect,” say “My communication skills improve every day.”

👉 And remember: Confidence doesn’t mean knowing everything. It means trusting that you have something valuable to offer—because you do.